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The Diaper-Free Saga Continues

Some of you may know this and just be too polite to point it out to me, but I have a tendency to be a bit, no make that a heck, of a complainer. This came to mind rather sharply this week as I whined and complained about not being able to find tiny enough underpants for my 19-month-old’s size 1 tush. North Korea is paranoid and launching nuclear bombs wherever they please, and here I am, complaining about all the trouble I’m having finding teeny-tiny undies!

You see, the average age for kids to be potty trained these days is 3 years for girls and 3.5 years for boys, so why would any store sell 12-month-size undies? I looked online and could order some for a hefty sum, and looked at a ridiculous number of stores this week, trying to find something small enough for Aurora. Finally a friend suggested Sears, and I grabbed their last two packs of size 2 Fruit-of-the-Loom girls’ briefs. I washed them on hot, dried them up real good, and they shrunk enough to sort of fit her.

You know the kind of bragging that is hiding under a layer of complaining? I hate that, so I’m going to just out-and-out brag here. Aurora only wets a couple of diapers a day, at least for the past week or two. When we ask her, “Do you need to pee?” she usually says “Yes” or “No/done” accurately; she goes on either a little potty or a big toilet (I have a folding seat for travel); and she only has accidents when she or her parents are too engrossed in what they’re doing to bother about it. Daddy is even more thrilled about her progress than I am, which is why he insisted we move on to the real underwear. Lately Aurora’s been complaining a lot about her diapers or pants being “tight”, which might be why she used to make such a fuss about diaper changes when she was pre-verbal. They’re not actually tight, but they are bulky, and probably pretty uncomfortable when you’re trying to run or climb stairs and things.

We still have a ways to go before we can eschew diapers completely. Naps and nighttime are usually not dry all the way through, and travel and long outings are a bit tricky. Also, she has to be asked nearly every time. She rarely comes up to us out of the blue and says, “Pee” or “Poo”, and I won’t really consider her toilet trained until she does. Still, it’s a great step, and I was excited to dress her in underpants this morning for an outing to Jenn’s house. From 8:00 a.m. to 12:30 p.m., when I changed her back into diapers for her nap, she stayed dry. I opened up the boxes of outgrown clothes from the basement, and found a pair of 6-12 month pants from last summer, which are now being worn as capris. Trés chic!

Edmund (strong boy!) gives Aurora a ride in his wagon,

and shows how much fun it is to throw toys down the slide. Nice playhouse, by the way, J & J!

All the way to their house, she kept saying, “sandbox, sandbox”.

It was exciting for both of us when Aurora learned to climb the round-rung ladder.

Extra photo: playing in the fountain at Queen Elizabeth Park on a warm, sunny Sunday afternoon last weekend.

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Bye-bye Damma!

After eleven days with Grandma Gail, Aurora’s pronunciation developed to the point where she says, “Damma” rather than “Dumber”, which we all think is a great improvement. Don’t forget to check out the “Word Up!” page for vocab updates!

We had two more big outings with Grandma this past week, first to the Vancouver Art Gallery. The VAG I generally avoid, ever since they “fired” me from my volunteer gig helping out with the school tours (and also they have the nerve to charge as much for their rather provincial offerings as the Met does). However, the serendipitous combo of a Dutch Masters exhibit (Gail’s fave), a novel interior design retrospective, and a generous gift of free tickets from our Arts Maven Andrew-Bruce combined to propel me back to the museum. Aurora really seemed to get a kick out of the Dutch Masters, who were quite fond of painting dogs, cows, bees, and other interesting creatures, and she loudly and gleefully pointed out every “oof” and “moo” she saw. Hopefully we did not disturb the other, more serious, visitors too much. Reece Terris’ “Ought Apartment”, a stacked series of interiors that rises up through the museum’s rotunda, was pretty trippy, especially the 1950’s and 1980’s floors, which you can actually walk through. Unfortunately, the top two floors (1990’s and 2000’s) were unable to be viewed last week due to the closure of the VAG’s third and fourth floors during their new exhibits’ installations. The rapid pace of interior design trends and obsolescence is truly staggering. I left with a new appreciation for mid-century modern style; let’s salvage that old stuff!

Afterwards, we had lunch on the terrace at the always-delicious gallery cafe, my favourite place for lunch downtown, especially on such a lovely day.

Our second big outing, to the Aquarium, was an even more smashing success. Now, here’s a tourist attraction that is truly world-class. Getting there at 9:30 a.m., right when they open, we were able to avoid most of the crowds for a couple of hours. We really enjoyed watching the Belugas having their breakfasts without the hubbub of the big shows.

Aurora brought her own baby Beluga along for the day.

Look! There’s more!

Grandma makes the “Gail Face” while showing Aurora the otters.

Yes, Aurora still loves to push chairs,

but now she’s a little more interested in checking out the real live starfish nearby.

Our favourite part of the aquarium, though, was the big shark tank, which has a nice carpeted bench to stand on. Aurora was transfixed by the enormous green sea turtle swimming overhead, and I was transfixed by the play of light coming through the water.

Sorry, Sweetie. I don’t think you’re going to be able to climb in there with the nice fishies!

I’m so glad both Grandma Gail and Grandpa Larry got a chance to enjoy the Aquarium with our girl in April and May. It’s one of our favourite places to go. Maybe we can drag Grandma Shaun and Grandpa Bill there in June!

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Soccer, Clowns and Well-fed Birds

We’ve been doing a lot of stuff with Grandma Gail and Daddy this weekend, starting with soccer class on Saturday morning.

Somewhat missing the point of the class, Aurora does her best…

At least until she can escape to the playground with Daddy. High five!

Then in the afternoon, a wonderful show of Brazilian Clowns, “O Cano”, at the Children’s Festival. They were brilliant, making clever use of the humblest of props (mostly PVC pipes). However, Aurora seemed equally thrilled by a ride on a “smart car”.

The long walk back to the car afterwards. Mommy found organizing a trip to the Children’s Festival a challenge, having no idea what it would be like, but we’ll do better next year. Spend all day, forget the nap, and bring lots of healthy snacks.

Today (Sunday) we ventured out to the Reifel Bird Sanctuary, an hour away on the very western edge of Westham Island. Grandma Gail was thrilled to see a nesting pair of wood ducks, but Aurora was mostly keen on the more common (and fearless) canada geese and mallard ducks.

“Shh, Aurora – you’ll scare them all away!”

Feeding the ducks and geese with a 50-cent bag of birdseed has got to be one of the best cost-per-entertainment values around.

“Look! There’s Dumber!”

Up and down and up again, Aurora got a lot of exercise today, while Grandma and I appreciated the view from the viewing platform:

We had lunch at the Boot & Sombrero, a very comfy pub next to the Delta Museum in Ladner. Aurora had a good time playing with the hot sauces, and she appreciated not being locked into a high chair.

Post-outing, sans nap, an overtired Aurora sinks into Grandma’s lap for a few quiet moments reading Are You My Mother? by P.D. Eastman. Whew! And the weekend’s not even over yet – there’s still Monday!

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Those Eyes

Thanks, Jenn for the portrait of serious Aurora. I’m always trying to get her to smile, but sometimes you miss those beautiful eyes that way.

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Dumb and Dumber

No, I am not a fan of the movie of the same name. Unfortunately, the “gr” sound is very hard for Aurora to pronounce, and when she tries to say “Grandma” we end up with something that sounds much more like “Dumber” or “Dahlmer”, which may be even more unfortunate. Then she shortens it to “Dumb”. I know of a lot of nicknames and baby names for Grandma, like “Gramma”, “Nana”, “Bubbie”, and “Mama” but I have never heard of anything like this before. Any linguists out there want to weigh in on this one? Lucky Papa, eh?

Anyway, Dumber (Oops! Sorry, Grandma) Gail is visiting this week, and she is introducing Aurora to the joys of puppets, like this monkey and alligator set:

Aurora loves rescuing the monkeys from the alligator’s jaws after they’ve been eaten.

We took Grandma to “Fun and Games”, too. Grandma was impressed with the number of ride-on toys, and we’re thinking of getting one for Aurora to ride around the house. Mostly because I want her to stop doing this:

Even though she weighs next to nothing, it’s still probably more than these toy trucks were designed to handle.

I think we can afford a second hand kiddie car, especially considering all the money Aurora’s been picking up on the soles of her sticky little feet!

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Mother’s Day Love List

Jenn Milley has challenged us to put up one of Meg Fowler’s Friday Love Lists, so I’ll do a mother/daughter one for me and Aurora on Mother’s Day (mine in italics).

THINGS YOU LOVE

1. Song you love – “Black Stallion” on George Winston’s “Summer” album – “Baby Beluga” by Raffi
2. Book you love – Beauty by Robin McKinleyWhere the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak
3. Type of cuisine you love – Italian - Salty or Sweet
4. Beverage you love – Knott’s Berry Farm’s Boysenberry Punch – Chocolate Milk
5. Cookie you love – Oatmeal Chocolate Chip (thanks, Daddy!) - Anything she can get her hands on
6. Ice cream flavour you love – Ben & Jerry’s Half Baked – Anything she can get her hands on
7. Place you love to go – San Diego, Ojai, San Francisco, California in general – “Par!”
8. Thing you love to drive – Honda Civic Hybrid (sorry, Prius!) – Those Flintstones-type cars at the play gym
9. Place you love to live – Vancouver – Vancouver (we hope)
10. Movie you love – When Harry Met SallyBolt (clips)
11. Time in your life you loved – High School. Boy, did I feel smart back then. – Right now. Toddlers are all about the present.
12. Person you love – My guy and little gal – Mommy & Daddy
13. Cute picture of a baby animal you love (provide link) - Ilse von Nestorhausen. She’s not a baby anymore, she just looks like one. – Pretty much any “woof” or “mao” will do.
14. Item of clothing you love most (that you own) – The seagreen cashmere turtleneck sweater my mom gave me – The pink teddy bear sweater Uncle David and Aunt Ashleigh gave her
15. Way of relaxing you love best – Sharing the squishy couch with Daddy – Cuddling & reading on Mommy or Daddy’s lap

There you go. I’ve done my best to try to get into the mind of a 1 1/2 year old, but she can always post a correction later if she feels like it.

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